I have lost so many friends over the years, I feel like I care more about others then they do about me. I am so sorry, that is a pretty low blow. Have you told her how you feel? It sounds like she is trying to cut ties without saying it officially.

The older I get the easier it gets to let people know when I am not ok with how they are treating me. I have been finding a lot of closure and clarity to be able to say, "What you have done has really hurt me, I truly cared for you and I do not feel that you reciprocate those feelings. If you want to mend things the ball is in your quart, otherwise I am moving on."

I have done this so many times sadly. It never gets easy but at least I feel like I have some sense of control by being the one to say I am moving on.

Hang in there! This certainly is a tough situation, sending thoughts your way!