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I used to see him as a total object. This has lessened a bit since he began to disclose feelings, tell me stories, etc. It makes him more human.... which helps the erotic transference stuff a little-- but not a whole lot. I would imagine the briliant idea of talking about it might help but as of right now that's just out of the question.

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(((Pinksoil)))

I remember a long time ago, a friend said that a therapist she knew was writing a book called "When you can you Will". So, another friend and I totally made fun of the concept. We thought it was vague and ridiculous and well, just nothing. (Like the Seinfeld episde about nothing?)

Anyway, now I get it. Now, the mature me gets it totally. And when you can talk about the transference you will. No need to feel bad about it, and in fact, you are quite brave to have let T know, through your poetry, that it exists.

Tomorrow you can call.