A child part, yea it has happened, but olders of the system usually have something to say. We're you fighting your protector alter? Was he, usually a he but not always, protector, against the child parts request to date.. This can be extremely complicated to explain just for example.....Sometimes, there can be a lot of irons in the fire, I get jealous and don't want any of them jokers dating my men..I just want the host to date......It is very hard boundary to keep on a personal level, so I conform because I can't get rid of them, alters lol..No, I'm not in denial it is just that some are still playing the blame game about they name being called or the gatekeeper does her thing about switching...Sometimes I apologize, then other times I asked them to try to conform cause we can't just keep their presence secrets.....I try to do the best I can to avoid over sharing when in new relationships, until I feel it might be necessary. For instance, how you make your money stuff like that usually gets us out in some shape or form.. Everyone is curious when you spending time with a guy....I'm avoiding this guy, now because I fear closest, disappointment and yea love..