As for who dismissed it on here that strongly I am not going to name names, but here on this forum yes. Although it didn't actually affect him so no harm done, it was just me wondering something I guess, I really don't expect people on the Internet to know about people they don't know... ehh... yea I'm not good with words today, but I hadn't expected to get chewed out either and told he is not diagnosed right.

I'm just a little confused to why it is a mortal sin on this site to suggest a diagnosis, but totally fine to claim someone doesn't have what they are diagnosed with.

Not that he is a part of PC but I've seen it done to PC members as well. I'm just beginning to get some grasp of what DID is, I think it would have helped me a lot with my RL friend if I had dared talking about it on here while all that stuff happened but I didn't because of the dismissing stuff. Realizing she was more than one, after many years friendship was quite shocking.

I don't want to whine too much either because I also see there are so many terrific people on here. But it still doesn't feel like a safe place for me. But you who replied to me, awesome and thanks!!!