(((healed))) i'm sorry your h is being like that. Mine is like that too, forever getting on my case about leaving a not-quite-empty soda can in my car, or for leaving my bag in the car (that I take in to work with me EVERY day so why bring it in the house?) he hardly ever even drives my car, but is always on my case about it. I try to just ignore him but sometimes it really upsets me.