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Originally Posted by TrailRunner14
I've tried explaining to him and I've also asked him to read some things I've found that would help him understand. He just keeps telling me that I'm fine. He wants to know why I can't just "lay it down and move on." I want to yell at him "You aren't understanding me!" There really is too much to explain about him. I wish he did understand or wanted to.
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I was reading a little of your stuff and this part stuck out. "He wants to know you you just can't lay it down and move on." Are you secretly married to my husband to.
My H says the same thing. When are you going to get over this, why do you keep TRYING to remember this, or worst yet, YOU jsut let me know when the T has you cured. CURED!!! I don;t have a disease, I'm not sick, you can;t toss me an antibiotic, my T is not doing brain surgery to remove the memory forever. What happened happened and it makes me who I am, and I will likely never EVER forget it. It will pop up from time to time and we will have to deal with it again when it does.
My H is a very black and white thinker. There is no way this can be possible. HE jsut can't wrap his mind around such things. I give him stuff to read and I get one of two answers,well maybe 3 answers.
1. I' don't have time to read that crap.
2 I still don't get it.
3. Whoever wrote that is full of more $h!t then you are.
I jsut want to let you know you are not alone. It sucks, and it is a terrible place to be in, but please know that you are not there alone.