Debbie, I understand your feelings and your way of thinking COMPLETELY! I didn't realize Jerry had a double! Yes, it's way too easy to fall into their habits and their lack of their own existance.

You go, Girl! Do things for yourself now. I can see such a HUGE change in you since you bought your ranch. Keep on keepin' on!!

PS Doesn't sound like he's gonna change, does it? HINT! HINT!