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Old Mar 07, 2016, 03:33 AM
kkrrhh kkrrhh is offline
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Originally Posted by Ocean Swimmer View Post
Well if you've had 1/2 dozen other friends say ,"Ditch her.". Then get a little closer to them and they can be your emotional support.

If she keeps insisting on a big talk you could have an alcohol intervention.

Also go to Alanon for support, so you are surrounded by people who understand.
I have considered an intervention. It's all such bad timing because I had finally been considering trying to do one kind of recently, then this happened. I've wondered whether right now would be a bad time to do it and if it'd be better to get through making up first then try it, but honestly I don't feel like waiting to do all that.

I've also considered asking her mom and a mutual friend what they think about doing it, since they're probably her 2 other closest people, but she's much closer to the friend than I am and I'm worried she or my friend's mom would tell my friend or even think it was weird. :/ Hmm.

Thanks for the advice.