mckell, are you continuing to see your therapist in individual sessions as well as in couples? Please don't give up the individual. Those sessions are just for yourself and serve a different purpose from the couples. It may be much harder for you to articulate your needs to the T in front of your husband during a couples session than it is in your individual sessions. I have had both individual and couples sessions with my therapist. They are different animals! You can get the support you need in your individual sessions to make the couples sessions even more effective. Good luck.