Not sure about your shyness question since I'm sure I know some.

Depends on the woman as far as wanting to be approached, which would require a twinge of self confidence. I think the entire online aspect has skewered the way people form relationships. I for one, prefer the old fashioned way of meeting people, but at this point in my life, it's neither here nor there because I honestly cannot fathom where romance could squeeze into this life that I have.

So all in all I'm probably not the best person to answer this thread.