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Originally Posted by Wandering Soul
I understand that women need confident men to be able to take care of them and the demands of life (this is the only reason I can think of, at least). I'm confident in other settings in my life, and I speak up and defend my rights. So, I'm not sure why confidence in approaching women is that important, and a deal breaker for many!! It's an automatic reaction I guess. For me, I just have problems in initiating a talk with women. I'm working on it, but I need to go through some rejections to get it right, which I'm not sure if I can endure.
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It's not so much that it's a deal breaker, it's just that
someone has to be the first to approach the other person, otherwise nothing will happen
honestly, I wouldn't care if someone was nervous. I'd much prefer someone shy over someone too confident/arrogant.
Just depends on what type of woman you go for, I guess. Someone who is shy herself might be more open to a shy guy.....