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Old Mar 07, 2016, 06:19 PM
BudFox BudFox is offline
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What I experienced with a wounded/flawed T becoming triggered and acting out was systemic denial. She could not acknowledge what was going on, and other Ts could not either. It was as if the whole system was triggered, lost its collective mind, and could not respond appropriately when it mattered most. Most of the Ts doused me in a cloud of confusing equivocations, like a squid squirting ink when threatened.

It's not just that Ts are flawed but also that clients are in no position to properly assess the T's mental health. The one-sided honesty and disclosure means the client is always groping in the dark. Trust me says the T, but then withholds the very information that the client needs to feel safe.
Thanks for this!
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