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Originally Posted by artemis-within
Thank you for this. Perhaps this is my new goal dor therapy. To learn the how of it... I really wonder if anything i could do or not do could ever make my h happy short of becoming his mommy. Which i cannot nor would i want to do. He is a sad big giant baby who insists he is not sad and refuses to consider it. Thanks friends for letting me vent here.
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You can't make anyone happy, they can only do that for themselves. I'd say the ball is in your h's court. Give him the opportunity and let him decide if he's going to take it, but whatever happens, be true to yourself.
And I'm serious about the undies(or insert other small thing just for you here). You deserve to have nice things. That was actually one of the first things I did for myself when I started to make my way out of the quagmire that was my marriage - I threw out all my ratty old pjs and underwear and other ragged clothes I used to wear around the house. It really did feel good. Felt like I was allowing myself to have value.
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'...
At poor peace I sing
To you strangers (though song
Is a burning and crested act,
The fire of birds in
The world's turning wood,
For my sawn, splay sounds,)
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Dylan Thomas, Author's Prologue
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