What is it that (you think) happens which makes other people suddenly find it within them to care-and even love- once another person dies, but they could never find it within themselves to care - much less to love - while the person was alive? I think sometimes, if one was able to die just for a short time and then "awaken", it may just help many others to realize how much they care and give them insight on how to show they care...or give care toward another.

What is your opinion?