I'm reading a book about working through abandonment issues to heal. I was reading about the stages someone with abandonment issues feels when someone leaves them by choice or by death/accident. I realized that's how I felt after many sessions with ex-T. She was inconsistent and didn't see what I needed, so I think I felt abandoned by her during/after my sessions. I never understood my intense feelings between sessions and crying for what I thought was no reason.
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