People do change of course but it has to be their decision. Yea it happens. I am just saying it's pointless to waste your time on changing people while there are people who don't need to be changed.

I don't think you are crazy.

Sometimes things just don't work out and sometimes people just don't match well. My ex husband is happily remarried and his new wife is much better match for him than me. We were a bad match. It's not like there is something wrong with me or him. Just wrong match.

But in his case he is just isn't a very good person. So why continue. Also I understand it is hard to never keep in touch but if it causes you that much pain seeing him happy it is better not to keep in touch. It's been long enough and time to move on. You can go better than this dude

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