Beauty is, as beauty does. If you aren't happy where you are, in the bungalow, you can pick up and leave. I moved to Texas, alone, and cast around and found a niche for myself. I'm older than you are.

What do you get out of it at the end of the day, EJ? That is what we need to look at concerning our living situations. What is in it for me? I had no one in this town when I moved. My youngest daughter, with two small children to keep her busy, live 30 miles from me. I found a house, moved my three dogs and four cats and have made a life for myself. For me, I wanted a change and worked to achieve it.

My last verse to this song is this, "if you are happy enabling your husband's lifestyle and are content with his behavior, stay"....."if not, pick yourself up and move"......pat