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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
I just wanted to jump in here and tell you to stay strong on keeping him out of your life.
This guy is not good for you. He has control over you, even when he is not saying anything...
It sucks being vulnerable to this kind of control, but I really feel that if you are aware, then you have some defense. Knowledge is power. And everyone here is on your side.
As an aside, I am not a fan of anyone diagnosing themselves (or anyone else, for that matter). If you need a diagnosis for treatment's sake, see someone who knows. But that's just my opinion, fwiw.
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Thank you, that means a lot.
I know what you mean about self diagnosis and I think my mum labelling me from a young age has affected me more than I realised.
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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
What does your T say about all this?
I ask because I am quite surprised that after all this time, therapy has not seemed to assist you with this break up and your subsequently negative view of yourself.
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I have only just started seeing a new therapist as the last one I saw (about 6 months ago) didn't really agree with me and I felt the connection wasn't there. I have tried various therapists in the past and I'm hoping this one works out better.
We are currently discussing my childhood and my mum labelling me with Aspergers/autism and the affect its had on me. However, I would like to talk more about this ex, but it's early days I guess. I see her every Thursday, so perhaps I should mention it this week.
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