ASD is spectrum...& it doesn't mean anyone is bad or the problem. Honestly if people did spend time finding someone who is TRULY compatible in the first place there wouldn't be the number of divorces that there are. That has NOTHING to do with ASD. Compatibility is an issue no matter what....& if just saying "I love you" meant a successful marriage there wouldn't be the number of divorces either.

All too often people brush off the incompatibility...you even said he treated you badly but you were so desperate to have someone care that it didn't matter....until its something you have agreed in marriage to live with the rest of your life.

You need to be wise in who you want to commit to, not desperate if you truly want to find that special person in your life or you will settle for less & end up unhappy in the long run. Love grows in relationships & it grows with compatibility & common interests & most of all a RESPECT for each other. It's not something you can force to happen