Why? Hm... cuz I need to talk to handle things? Or is there a rule I can only talk TO the person about what is going on with THEM? I suppose there is. I worried about one friend who is very ill and in hospital, mentioned that to someone else, I guess I was dumb enough to expect a kind word. Sigh. I should have kept that to myself, cuz I can't talk to the friend in hospital because he is far from here and too sick to talk on the phone.