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Pickle said:
He abused us then abandoned us

It sounds strange but I feel like if I mourn for him then I can fully let him go.

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I too believe that maybe you could let go if you could just morn his death, for it is in the mourning that we find closure....... maybe try mourning for that which was lost in him / by him and not so much for him the mean person you knew him really to be.