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Originally Posted by BreakForTheLight
I actually disagree that it needs to be the man who approaches the woman, I just said that someone had to do it. You think a lot of men approach shy women? Maybe if they have supermodel looks..... I personally never get approached by men at all. So I don't think it is any easier for shy women at all.
I also did not say confident is the same as arrogant.
What does it mean that I don't care if someone's nervous? Well, I wouldn't run away screaming or laugh - or think negatively of someone just because they are nervous. I probably wouldn't try to keep the conversation going, simply because I have zero social skills.
I do feel a little more confident when the other person is shy as well but it makes the conversation more difficult...... So really I can't give you any advice, I only wanted to answer your initial question in your first post that yes, there are women who prefer shy men..... But it's not always easy to get to know them.
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OK, thanks for clarifying. I appreciate your response. I was under the impression that if you have to choose between a shy and confident/arrogant (to me this combination meant arrogantly confident), then you prefer shy guys. Which would've implied that if you have to choose between a shy and a normal confident guy, you would choose the confident guy, probably. Which is understandable even if it was the case, as I said before.
What I meant is that usually men who make the first move. I'm not sure about the supermodel hypothesis, because men are less selective than you think. I assure you that. For me personally, I try to approach normal women, and they are not even fit. Today, I tried to talk to a girl who sat on the same table where I was having my lunch, I could say she was a little overweight, but she was beautiful nonetheless. Of course, I didn't
. Women are harsh on themselves when it comes to beauty.