...... WOW! - blow me away, but I found out today that she did not actually loose the baby as stated, but that an abortion was performed and now she is depressed and sorry for what she did - but the deed cannot be undone.

.... My son is beside himself, for he did not know (and) he has moved back in with us while they see if their relationship can make it thru this.

.... My sons gf is going to see the T that I have been seeing - tomorrow.

.... While I am saddened about this event - I will NOT judge for I would hate to be judged for the few stupid things I did in my twenties, one of which I regret and yet cannot change.

.... Now I see why my son had a slight break down over his sister that passed away ten years ago at age ten a few days after the loss of this child - it resonated the unhealed pain that is left with in him concerning the loss of his only sister, that which he could do nothing about / had no say in.

............................ please PRAY and send your GOOD VIBES our way.