Usually if there is an issue they are having with other friends or I'm having, we talk about the issue not the person themselves & will discuss that. Sometimes it's good to have a sounding board & someone to get some other input from so it's important to be able to have an impartial outsider to get a thought from.

Guess no one I'm around is insecure because we don't seem to have any of those issues. It's important to have good friends who are open & reasonable....can't imagine having ones that aren't.