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Originally Posted by -jimi-
Thing is those people who react to this, themselves speak about other friends that I don't know, to me.
Also some, hearing I found a new friend, will immediately make up faults in this person to prove they are dumb etc to me, and they haven't even met the new friend. They simply want me not to have more friends.
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You can listen to them about their friends, but this doesn't mean they will listen in their turn about yours. If you did something of value to them personally, but they didn't reciprocate, then it would be an issue. I don't have friends at all, but I've always imagined that friends are mutual. I'm not sure how friends will have other friends!!
I don't like the people who talk behind others' back. Actually, anyone tries to speak ill of others in front of me, even if it's my father and he has the justification to do so,, I will stop them. Not listening about other people is acceptable, and I think normal, but talking ill about other people is not.