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Originally Posted by -jimi-
Why? Hm... cuz I need to talk to handle things? Or is there a rule I can only talk TO the person about what is going on with THEM? I suppose there is. I worried about one friend who is very ill and in hospital, mentioned that to someone else, I guess I was dumb enough to expect a kind word. Sigh. I should have kept that to myself, cuz I can't talk to the friend in hospital because he is far from here and too sick to talk on the phone.
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Knowing now that they talk negatively about others sheds light.
My initial thought was, I don't like being brought into the details of others' lives. It's none of my business. A quick mention, such as a health update or life event is acceptable.