I think he wants a serious relationship where things are being discussed and there is future but you aren't ready ( aren't you still married?) so the whole issue might be stemming from that. Not justifying his tantrums but you aren't on the same page in this relationship. Either the timing is wrong or you two are wrong match. There are many things about him you dislike and you want different things etc I really don't know why you two keep dating?

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