well I think the big reason she made the switch was for family reasons, but I respect that too. She should go wherever she feels she needs to, I don't argue that. My issue is with a health care system that won't allow for an established patient to continue seeing her current provider even though she is willing to pay out of pocket to do so. My issue is that for a medical provider to work with the indigent population it requires enormous personal resources to make that system work. There should be appropriate medical and mental support to allow these providers to maintain their own health while helping their patients maximize their own health.

I did see her today, but I am too tired to go into more detail; I'll update tomorrow. I didn't pull the crap I suggested earlier, I don't think that was ever the intent. I did need to let out some hurt and anger last night so the forum helped with that. lol