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Originally Posted by WhatDayIsItAgain
I think; just ignore him at this point (after two firm refusals)
I think explaining further even online will be perceived as encouragement or misperceived as interest. The sex issue really complicates it because he wants sex and is trying to "fix" the situation by re-re-re-asking your further consent to give up some more sex. In the future be more certain he accepts your desire for a one nighter only or pick someone you would like to see again. In both those possible cases, please meet in a public place and be more cautious with whom you share your home address. He may continue to try for awhile but if you are inconsistent he will interpret this as a go signal for "more asking/insisting/demanding". No means no and yes means yes so please decide and stay decided. I wobble with indecision myself... especially about "dating and sex" or "dating vs sex" (maybe) I think I mean both of them.
In conclusion: Be safe.
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I did all the things you are supposed to do to have a safe date. I even talked to my p-doc about it. lol
I talked to him online for a week. I DID NOT give him my address. I got his phone number and left it at home with my 19yr old son. I met him in public. We discussed condoms and what sexual acts would take place. And I told him I did not want to repeat the meeting.
I ignored him for 13 texts, blocked him and then told him twice. He told me he will leave me alone.
No means no even if you have had sex once. This wouldn't even be a conversation if I were a man and the rolls are reversed.
I clearly told him it was a one night stand.
So thanks everyone for the advice. This is pissing me off.