Well Haier i will sugest you to be very very very careful and to open your eyes good .You dont want to have a bad person in your life because i will suffer.I ont want to be negatively for you but this are the most inportant decizions in life .As about her parents speaking about her ex ,means they dont like you and its normal to do these things.Dont get afected by opinions and bad things of others .Good luck to you and dont forget open the eyes very large