there are many people that are possessive of others and there are people that tend to be the ones that attract those possessive ones. Thing is, if a friend is jealous and wants you to remove the other friends, that is exactly what this is. Also, what kind of a true friend is someone that merely wants you all to themselves? That is not caring it's possession and you become a kind of object to them it's not about your well being, your happiness or peace, it's about them and their sort of conquest and ownership of friends.
Friends that really care trust. Possession and jealousy is completely counter to that. In a trusting friendship one knows that their friend is a friend no matter how many others there are, because they trust you.
Look for trusting people that will believe in you, stand by you and support you. Not be busy trying to keep you confined to their small selfish world.
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