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Originally Posted by -jimi-
I do think insecurities can be part. I guess I think of it in a too theoretical way. Maybe they feel like maybe I will "leave" them even if nothing points at that, simply because they question why I want to be their friend in the first place or something.
The reaction though, it does the opposite, it pushes me away.
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And it should push you away, that's natural.
Their insecurities, if we are to assume that it plays a large role in this, is nothing YOU can do anything about. You could be the most wonderful, trustworthy and kind friend that you can be and their insecurities will remain, their behavior will not change, their thinking will not be changed, because it is an internal process that can only be resolved by them. Unfortunately there si nothing you can do about it.