Thanks so much for your response, it's very helpful. I am hopeful that she will be "the one", but will give it time. I'm just being impatient because I would hate to start over with someone new.

She apparently practices psychodynamics. We talked in general about my family, relationships etc. I just want to deal with unresolved family stuff (dont we all have that?!)

It's just with so much stuff that I've never talked about - how do you even know where to begin or what is the most logical thing to talk about first?