Getting help and learning is never a waste of time. I grew up without a father, abusive mother, poverty, etc., married an abuser....31 years and got a divorce only to have my (now former) church vote me out of membership. I used my past to win a scholarship and am a Sophomore at 69....it is never to late to make a change.

There are some things we cannot heal from and find a way to live with that/those. That is what I did because I cannot fix all of the trauma of the past, so I decided to be myself and do what I wanted to do; that is really all we can do. xo