I'm not sure I understand the situation that's going on with the information you gave, but that is not important. The important part is that I wish health and safety to all involved. If your partner is getting unstable and you feel you are not able to help him, this report may get some kind of social services involved which should help. If it doesn't, you may want to look into his doctor or the department of human services to get him further evaluation/help. Good luck.