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Originally Posted by lizardlady
A thought that popped into my head.... if he is not willing to make the commitment to marriage how committed to being a parent will he be?
Please don't let him blackmail you into having children. Kids are too big and too major a responsibility to have them just because someone else pressured you into having them. People should have kids because they love them and want to have them.
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True, brought up a good point. My ex couldn't seem to marry me yet he wanted me to have children for him. I couldn't see him helping me with a baby at all his devices has always been more important than me - no we have no kids. Together for 10 yrs every year it's we will get married got tired of it after our 10th anniversary.