Yeah, time.
You need to see what he is like when he has had a bad day. He needs to see what you are like when you have had a bad day. You need to see whether you can trust him not to hurt you and vice versa. You need to figure the limits of the relationship - will you talk about stuff okay? Talk about the hard stuff? Will he be good to talk to when you have had a hard day or will you need external friends who you can do that with etc etc etc?
Only time will tell...
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