This is fairly fascinating to me. I'm such an intensely sexual person that I couldn't imagine not being this way... But I suppose asexual individuals do indeed exist. Still, refusing sex ed and being uncomfortable with your own sexual development seems to suggest trauma, IMHO.

Just out of curiosity, is there any shame associated with sex for you? I'm just wondering if repression could be the issue; I've known too many people for whom sex is such a dirty, taboo or "sinful" subject that they feel uncomfortable even mentioning it, much less doing it. I know from experience that religion holds some extremely harmful stances on the subject.