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Originally Posted by mf1438
Sorry if I'm posting this in the wrong place. I'm 63 years old and I'm still trying to stay sexually alive.
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I like sex more than my wife and I’m tired of keeping all of my sexual energy bottled up until she’s ready to make love. She said it’s OK for me to masturbate to bridge the gap, but I’ve still got too many hang-ups to really enjoy it.
When in high school, I would masturbate to the lingerie section in the Sears catalog, over and over again. I wish I had Victoria’s Secret in those days.
What do you use to get aroused? What do you think about when you masturbate? Is it OK to think about a person you would like to screw?
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For me it depends. Most of the time it's internet porn, sure; I like the really romantic, passionate variety, especially where the woman actually looks like she's being pleasured and enjoying herself -- though I'm well-aware that most of it is still acting! I imagine giving a woman that kind of pleasure myself and nothing arouses me more.
I have a pretty good imagination and like to spin elaborate fantasies and stories that often include sexual components as I lay awake in bed at night (I'm a bad insomniac). Sometimes I even write them out, though I'd definitely never let anyone else read them! I've also masturbated after particularly hot sex dreams before, because I sleep on my stomach and arousal usually wakes me up before I finish.
So I think it depends entirely on your preferences! I certainly believe it's okay to think about anyone you like -- there's a HUGE difference between thought and action. May I ask what kind of hang-ups you're struggling with? I'm actually really impressed; I hope that I'm still fully sexually active if I live to be 63! I honestly can't imagine my life any other way.
