There is someone I knew from high school that I thought wanted to reconnect. She will say she wants to hang out but then always bails out. She did that like 5 times within a period of a few months. Always a lame excuse too. And a couple times she didn't even tell me we weee no longer meeting up. A couple times I tried to meet up but the other times she was the one who tried to meet up. Also she will ignore most texts and will not follow through when she says she will text or call back. I don't really feel like I am friends, just someone to reconnect with. I am okay with not hanging out, but I am just confused at why she does that. Not sure if she is playing mind games or if she is just not interested but doesn't know how to be honest. I respect her decision, just don't want her to constantly make plans if she does not really want to. As much as I hate rejection, I actually fear being friended out of pity, politeness, or obligation even more since I've had that happen to me with other people and I don't want her to eventually do that if there are any more attempts. I stopped attempting but sometimes she still does. Just confused at what her motives are and if I am doing the right thing by no longer making any attempts.