Well it's hard to figure out what's going on. You said people consider you super negative and at least 5 people stopped communicating with you. Yet you say that you don't think you are negative or that being negative might be better strategy as it makes you prepared better. So you think these people who perceive you certain way are incorrect in their perception?

don't know if you are negative or how you come across as I don't know you in real life but do you not agree with people and their assessments of you in real life? ( I wouldn't use that particular girls assessment though as if she is delusional her perception of life might be off and it's not fair example as she is not well ). But what about others?

I am just confused on the whole thing. You said you wanted to be less negative and want to have better relationship with people. But then you say that you don't think you really are negative or thats better to be this way. If nothing needs to be adjusted on your part then do you think other people need to change how they are with you? Or should you choose other people to be friends with? What do you think needs to be changed if it is not you?

I only mentioned the whole idea of negative versus positive because you said you wanted to learn to be less negative and people have issue with you. I wouldn't bring up the topic otherwise.

Wish you the best!


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