sorry about the complications with your dad bebop. it is so hard when elderly people have so many medical issues and they dont have the will to fight any more. my grandmother is sick at the moment too. she has just decided shes not going to eat any more until she dies. shes been advised to go to hospital but is refusing saying shes just tired and ready to go now. it is a hard thing to accept and to deal with. its hard to know how to react. hopefully things will turn out less serious for you dad and he will see the point of carrying on.
im glad your nephew is doing well though.
((((((((((((bebop)))))))))))))
remember to look after you!