I like perfectionists because they are the opposite of what? ... sloppy/careless/inept?

I am very demanding of my own performance and selfevaluate obsessively anyway. *smile* ... and .... *teeheehee* I promise you are skinnier than I am already. So now we both can share my excessive grandoise self esteem... cause I have way tooooo much!!!! LOL

I call my thinking errors "maximizing and minimizing" but it means "black or white" thinking. Too much *unfairly burdened and incorrectly blamed * type self hatred is a thinking error. It could be worse, you could refuse your introspective recognition by being a criminal/jerk who never accepts responsibility for his/her actions and refuses to correct any error while humiliating/harming others for social status/ego/$ instead of improving yourself with self awareness and self control. I think so anyway.

Thank you.