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silentlyscreaming said:

She's always telling me that I've traumatised her, that I'm manipulative, don't want to get better etc etc.

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Oh oh. You have traumatised her? Don't want to get better?

I have heard this before. I think she needs help. That's OK, but do you feel strong enough to give that to her? While you are paying for the therapy?