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. I cant say I love her..or I dont love her. Also I dont know what I am attracted towards bcoz I am not attracted towards her physically.

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Hi MKTK,

I try not to give definite opinions on this board, because I am terrified of messing up someone else's life. However, there are a couple of pretty glaring points in your post which worry me.

You say that you are not attracted to your girlfriend physically and that you have not had a sexual relationship with her.

I respect the views that many people have about pre marital sex, but my worry is that you may marry and still not find her physically attractive. I mean, it does seem like a possible outcome.

For me, I like everything about my wife, from her head to her toes. I even like her faults. I once saw her walking in the town at a distance, and I thought, that is a lovely woman and then I got closer and it was my wife! I know I was lucky.

You don't have to feel passionate all the time, but you do need to feel passionate sometimes. I hope that this starts happening for you.

Good luck, Myzen