Probably this will be perceived as another post for me to be right, but about the overweight girl, I didn't mean what you tried to put in my mouth, because I felt as nervous as with any other girl I try to approach, and didn't talk to her at the end. For this one specifically, she just happened to be around me at the time, it's not like I was seeking easy-to-talk-to girls. I didn't say anywhere to my knowledge that overweight girls are easy to talk to. On the contrary, I said she was beautiful. I wish people try to put things in contexts (read the previous post, and why I wrote this part) instead of throwing conclusions arbitrarily. I wonder why now after all these posts!! People in the beginning try to be nice and helpful until you say something they dislike for some reason, then they begin to dig in your past to throw something in your face and distort your name and make you feel bad. This makes others to join the unreasonable firing for some reason, it's like going with the crowd. Not just that, people will play your admission of lack of interactions with women's card against any statement you make, as if you aren't a human and have no general understanding of the opposite sex, whatsoever. I have a mother and two sisters, and I know what beauty means to them. There is no reason to think women aren't the same in their core. But of course if I try to clarify myself or respond to something I don't agree with, then I'm arguing. People want you to listen to them, and to submit to the social consensus regardless, like girls think there is an alpha male, and what that entails of conclusions. But that's OK. This thread taught me a lesson, at least.