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Originally Posted by Mygrandjourney
I've heard plenty of clients complain that their therapists had self disclosed, either too much/too often or that they self disclosed at all. Every situation requires a unique approach and should serve the needs of the client, not the therapist.
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Fair. Though I believe the majority of clients prefer to know enough about their therapists to feel that they are safe people. I prefer to know the basics of who I am dealing with, and don't mind therapeutic anecdotes when helpful, or small talk while we settle in. But yes, every situation is different.
I do think the majority of clients who get upset by disclosures wouldn't be as upset if the information were disclosed from the beginning. For example, I've heard of clients getting disturbed after finding out their long term therapists are married, or have children. Reality disturbs the fantasy.