For me, I don't get disturbed if the woman decides to tell me something about herself but I am usually baffled as to why she is telling me. I don't really care what she thinks or does in her real life. It does not make me go "oh wow, this person does X so X is okay" or "Wow, this person said X and I now trust her so much" or anything like that. I just think "what was the point of that?"