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Old Mar 11, 2016, 04:25 PM
Anonymous37837
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
There is a reason to believe that women aren't all the same in their core. The reason is simply experience with women. If you knew more women, you'd know they are not all the same in their core. Same as men: they aren't all the same. They are all different. Etc I know many people in different continents. People have similar values but everybody is different. Generalizations are just never a good thing

I think the issue with overweight girl is why even mention it? Like if I saw some person somewhere it wouldn't occur to me even describe him/her in regards to their weight. How does it define anyone?

I think you can learn to connect with others if you make an effort and go out there and open your mind to other people and other opportunities. Again you either want to improve or you don't. In a long run it doesn't even matter what we think of this or that. Just get out there

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Are you telling me that women don't care about their beauty and keep judging themselves about it? I hear this everywhere. There was a YouTube video that showed women describe themselves less favorably than someone else describing them. But you try to make me appear wrong, look naive, and that I'm over generalizing, as if I'm not aware of anything in this world.

To put it in context for you, BreakForTheLight said earlier that men don't approach women unless they are supermodels, as a response to my comment that shy women are different than shy men, because they are the ones usually being approached. That's why I mentioned the overweight aspect to emphasize that it's not true men seek supermodels. Also, "women harsh on themselves when it comes to beauty" comes within the same context. Men care about women's look but not that much, at least for me. That's all what I was trying to say, otherwise, I wouldn't have mentioned the story in the first place.

I wish it is as easy as you make it sound. I want to connect with people (not women specifically) more than anything else in my life right now, yet I fall short every time, and crawl back to my shell.

Anyway, thanks.

Last edited by Anonymous37837; Mar 11, 2016 at 04:44 PM.