, like if H and I have a heated discussion, I freeze. I usually cannot move, I cannot speak, A mental dialogue begins to go on in my head. (if I could only say this, or thats what you think, or liar, or you have no idea what you are talking about) But I can produce no words. Eventually after a point of absolute no return I can produce tears sometimes, and that is the only way I have to show/say this is to much. Often times my H will not stop talking to me and I just continue down my frozen path.